Christopher Frier Brown

QUESTIONS.

Please tell me your stories.

I’m most interested in learning the real stories of people’s erotic experiences. There’s far more nuance to our stories than gender generalizations and love languages can tell.

This is a place for your stories.

These are my current
research interests.

Are ATTACHMENT STYLES AND RELATIONSHIP STYLES related?

I’m interested to learn if there is a correlation between your attachment style and your preferred relationship configuration.

Here you’ll find a survey that will tell you and me your attachment style in four important relationships. Then there are a couple of questions added in to see your preferred relationship style. Put all those answers together and we’ll find out if there’s a connection between the two.

Don’t know what I mean by “relationship style?”

Okay, let me back up. Culturally we in the west are conditioned to believe that monogamy is the one “right” way to do relationships. Turns out that monogamy is simply one of many options.

You may have heard the term “open relationship” of “polyamory.” No doubt these configurations are having a few moments in the algorithms of today’s popular culture. My survey will ask you some questions and give you a few descriptions of some of the relationship styles that are possible for you.

What do MEN really feel about their ORGASMS?

As I teach more and more workshops I’ve heard so many people assume that if a man cums then he liked what happened just before that ejaculation. I wonder if that’s true. Fill out this quick survey and let’s find out if what so many people assume about men and their orgasms is really true.

What do MEN really feel about the SEX they want and the sex they’re having?

I wonder if men are liking the sex they are having. Let’s find out. Men what kind of sex are you having? Do you like it? What do you long for? What do you wish for? Are you tolerating? Let’s tell our stories and all the complexity that comes with them.

CONFIDENTIAL MALE ORGASM SURVEY